“When we build on our strengths and daily successes instead of focusing on failures we learn more.” 

- Tom Rath



I use a model of couples work that started when I used "strengths-based" therapy with clients. Over time I left therapy (because my clients don't need a diagnosis) but kept my focus on client's greatness.

Strengths-based means we center our work on your inner gifts, wisdom and resourcefulness and the strengths you bring to each other's lives.  Rather than focusing only on shortcomings and weakness we amplify the greatness you share to help you overcome the challenges you're facing.

It works for me because I believe my clients are whole, capable, and resourceful.  They are often high-achieving entrepreneurs, creatives, and business leaders who are simply stuck in a pattern they've outgrown.  I love helping couples discover their strengths and develop them further. 

This mindset leads us to greater awareness and empowerment and often creates longer lasting more sustainable change in relationships.  If this growth-oriented mindset is for you, give me a call for a free consult.  I'm happy to talk more about how it could help!



In any of the options below we'll center the conversation on your resiliency and core values.  Read more about each option below.

Annual Relationship Renewal - deep dive to learn your strengths and plan for growth- together

PreMarital or Pre-Commitment Work - lay a foundation for lasting love

Couples Coaching Package - 8 weeks to change the way you love

Online Group Coaching Community - A supportive group learning and growing healthier relationships together

Connection Couples Retreats & Communication Workshops - semi-regular events to learn the skills of healthy communication


Call me to see which option is best for you.  

All work with me starts with a free consultation to determine the best course of action for you and your love.  These are not sales calls, if you don't feel called to this work at the end of our chat I'll happily point you toward other supportive resources.



Here are my favorite book recommendations for clients who are just starting to identify their unique strengths.



Here's an excellent TEd Talk on mindset from Dr Alia Crum: