NOBODY TEACHES US HOW TO DO RELATIONSHIPS
...or at least not many of us. Most of us cobble together some messages about love from our parents (who aren't always the best role models) and combine that with the stories we read and watch around us.
Usually we learn as we go, fumbling through relationships and love for years.
If we're lucky enough to find someone we want to commit to we default into familiar default communication patterns that fail us, old baggage or desire fatigue and passionless distance the longer we're together.
We start wondering if there's something wrong with us, or our partner, or relationships as a whole. "This is just the way it is." we tell ourselves, even if that way isn't great.
All too often I see people who stick around in unfulfilling relationships where inspiration, fascination and desire once lived.
Your relationship is fine (no drama there) but there's no real spark either.
YOU DESERVE SPARK
And so does your partner.
Here's the truth:
You know it's time to change something about the way love exists in your life.
Things aren't so bad you need to split up- but you know you could be stronger together than you are now.
Maybe you don't need intense therapy to give your relationship a tune-up.
Maybe you've tried couples counseling- and it didn't really last.
I've helped thousands of couples like you reconnect with authenticity and return to the magic they felt in the beginning. We use a pro-active model to create sustainable meaningful change that works for both of you.